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INDIA ITS TIME TO WAKE UP

Well i have a question to all , especially the people who are concerned with our culture and care about it being lost in this country leading to the so called "westernization".

     1. WHAT IS CULTURE?
ans- The arts and  other manifestations  of human intellectual achievements regarded 
 collectively*
*source - oxford dictionary

   2. WHEN YOU DON'T LIKE A THING EG. LIKE A DRESS OR A FURNITURE OR IF I THINK SOMETHING DOES NOT GO WITH MY CULTURE, WHAT DO I DO?
ans- one usually walks away from it , does not buy it.**
** normal people taken into account

  3.WHEN I WATCH SOMETHING AND I THINK IT IS SOMETHING WHICH IS UNCULTURED, WHAT DO I DO?
ans- i stop watching it.**
**normal people taken into account

      If u completely agree with my answers i have a question to you. Why are rules different for different things?
   When i hear a news like this ( http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/mumbai/AIB-roast-Police-complaint-lodged-against-Bollywood-stars-for-filthy-language/articleshow/46098072.cms) my blood boils , I think its funny how a thing or a show which was done out of a pure intention of CHARITY and FUN is ruined all thanks to some uneducated fucks.
   So all you are trying to say is your "SO CALLED CULTURE" is so weak that one evening of people laughing and having a good time will downgrade it.
    

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   All i can say is culture has nothing to do with what others do. It is what you give do to the society. presently there are people who think these are big issues hurting your culture while (http://www.indiatimes.com/culture/who-we-are/he-was-sitting-behind-her-on-a-flight-and-continued-to-poke-her-this-is-what-she-did-after-the-flight-landed-229898.html?fb_ref=Default) actual issues like molestation in a flight by an old man have nothing to do with your "SO CALLED CULTURE" .

      SO IS THIS OUR CULTURE?

     So make your call!!! line of incidents showing how the men of your "culture" behave with women in public is what is alarming or one evening of fun where not a single person around seemed in distress or force in fact seemed happy and having a good time.

     

      I think its high time these people come out of there nutshell and see the world.... there is a lot more to change and file complains about. Where is our RIGHT TO FREEDOM OF SPEECH AND ACTION? 

    

    Well to one and all who think this is what downgrades our culture and if you have an issue with the content don't watch it.  you have no right to decide what others should do and should not. If you think u are the only one responsible to safeguard our "culture" you need to safeguard every girl that has to go through eve teasing ,death for dowry,  female infanticide, rape,  abandonment, ETC because i think they downgrade our culture and disrespect women in this country way too much.

      This is an age of new India , if you have a problem with an content u don't watch it you move on.  You cannot complain . If you dont like a dress in a mall and it is against your culture you move on to the next section, you dont go to the police saying that the dress is downgrading your culture. 

      That show may be something you don't like but there are a group of like minded well educated people who have seen the world and understand sarcasm and good humor . 

     INDIA ITS TIME TO WAKE UP AND FACE REAL PROBLEMS AND STOP FATHERING EVERYONE. THERE IS MORE TO OUR CULTURE THAN A GROUP OF PEOPLE WHO ENJOYED ONE EVENING OF FUN AND HUMOR  

  

new additions on my friend list

        25th august 2014 was the 1st day of my 1st semester for Bachelors Of science (hon) Architecture at Taylor's University, Malaysia.
     
      Well lets face it its Malaysia... the lah lah land.... within a week i and all my friends had the 'lahs' on our tongue . :P
       I recollect my 1st friend in Taylor's .... we both dressed up like good little kids on the 1st day of our orientation. Koyal Harjani (don't know how, but i always land up making a Sindhi friend everywhere) .
          well she is a proud Indonesian SINDHI (that will explain a lot).... dressed in formals we both exchanged "dude i don't know anyone here" looks and clicked at once.... we attended the 1st half  of our orientation happily..... then came the SAFETY WORKSHOP . Lets not talk about it , it left a permanent scar on my life.... i clearly remember going back to my mom's hotel room crying.

koyuuuuu

              Getting a not so happening accommodation was the next hurdle , well not that shitty after all ... all thanks to this did i meet an amazing friend like Mark Arjun, the Chennai(mamma's) boy.... well he very much sister zoned me the 1st day... never mind he is the best brother i could have.

markkkkkkkkkkk

            after that i had the most weird 1st meeting wit Muhammad Mubarak... it had been days that i had spoken to someone in Hindi.... only people i knew Koyal and Mark, who dint know Hindi.
           It was my 1st architecture ice breaking session and i saw some one i thought was Delhi (sorry Mubarak that wanna be hair style forced me to think so ) we still laugh over our 1st conversation.
(for reference as Mubarak says, watch PK from 11 mins onward ,that was my exact reaction) .
 Me- hie, whats your name.
Mubarak - Mubarak, acc Muhammad Mubarak.
Me- oh where are u from...?
Mubarak- Karachi, Pakistan.
(AWKWARD SILENCE FOR 2 MINS AND ME WALKING TOWARDS OTHERS)
Mubarak (wtf did i say )
after around half an hour...Me- so Mubarak do u know Hindi.
Mubarak- i know Urdu ... same thing... BTW what is ur name.....
Me- saurabha (nor that he could pronounce my name for a long long time)

mubssssss

All we know the same day I , Koyal, Mark and Mubarak were having dinner at TGIF ....  and went for a movie the right same next day.

   By then i came across my spice bag "make it very very very very very.........very spicy" Arooj sheikh... this girl... well she can be as confused and as understanding the same time.... and loves Kenya(Kenyan's i tell u)... :P this girl, u can have the most useless conversations to the most serious once... she is so soft spoken god knows ,how is she going to convince the judge in a court once she the best lawyer we know.

well we can do a lot more than that... haha

          Then lets come to my 2 sweet hearts... like these people two loveeeeeee.... i mean with one i can have meaningless garbas anywhere, Danish Norani(soon Pakistan is going to deport you to India, because some times you are more Indian than i am) and my sweet little hottie Maariyah khan.... we talk about everything one can talk about... like anything.... and if given a chance i will have babies wit her some day.. well i have discussed such stupid things with these two that they don't even judge me anymore.

we need more pictured

u shall die

            How can i forget my 2 sardarnis..... well they are exotic once.... they are Singaporean sardarnis..... as a matter of fact we are going to be new room mates.... like they are going to do the cooking and cleaning and well my presence is enough..... Gurkiran and Amarpreet( that is as Punjabi a name can get)... we met for a random dinner and ever since that day every time we meet land bitching about people we hate in common... they truly are sweethearts.

       We shall set bitching nights and improve our blood circulation... :p

               

               Well i met this friend way back when i started my history project... and truly speaking my only Malaysian friend I can talk to......Shalin Tan..... we can sit on the stairs right outside our studio and discuss life..... and how to forget the boys we check out..... she is one beautiful girl...... she is among the few Malaysians who gets my English well.... can get bossy at times..... but there for u when u ask for help...

         Lastly my studio day is never over without meeting these two Mauritians . these two are poles apart one who takes his work so seriously that u feel ashamed looking at the amount of handwork u put in... and other ,well there is no one who can stop him from sleeping .... when he is sleeping u don't know when u see him next.... this guy lives the YOLO concept  .... an advice- never trust his 15 mins .... Saravanan Dior and my not so secret crush Nabeelllllllllll......

          These people made my 6 months in a unknown land a bliss.... i shall never forget all the fun times i spent wit u people .... and i hope the coming time is going to get us way closer than we are.... i love each and everyone of you and miss u people like crazy during this sem break.

WEEKEND

MY 1ST WEEKEND IN THE NEW CITY
 
   THIS IS NOT AT ALL INTERESTING..... I LANDED IN THIS COUNTRY ON THE 15TH OF AUGUST, A FRIDAY WITH 175 KILOS OF LUGGAGE BETWEEN MY MOM, ME AND MY DOG..... WITH THE NEVER ENDING LINE OF BAGS WE CHECKED INTO OUR NEW SERVICE APARTMENT AT  RIVERVALLY, SINGAPORE.
 
     THE FIRST DAY LITERALLY WENT SLEEPING... I WOULD ONLY GET UP TO DRINK SOME WATER OR GO TO THE LOO..... I LOST TRACK OF TIME ,THE TRACK OF IT BEING THE DAY TIME ,EVENING, NIGHT.... I HAD NO CLUE......
 
     THE NEXT DAY SEEMED QUITE EVENTFUL.... WE WENT FOR OUR BREAKFAST EARLY MORNING.... THE SERVICE APARTMENT PROVIDES YOU WITH BREAKFAST EVERY MORNING.....
      THIS BREAKFAST WAS ONE OF MOST OBSERVANT BREAKFAST.....I MET SO MANY PEOPLE OF DIFFERENT CASTE, CREED, NATIONALITIES, RELIGION SITTING TOGETHER IN HARMONY WITH THEIR WHOLE FAMILY AND EAT THEIR 1ST MEAL OF THE DAY.... THE EXPERIENCE AS PRICELESS..... I FELT LIKE I M WAS A WORLD CITIZEN ... TALKING TO NEW PEOPLE , MEETING DIFFERENT KINDS OF PEOPLE FROM EVERY PART OF THE WORLD... THE BEST PART EVERYTHING SEEMED SO NORMAL AND POSITIVE.....
 
     HALF THE DAY WENT UNPACKING THE LINE OF BAGS WE GOT HERE..... IT FELT LIKE WE GOT EVERYTHING AND ANYTHING WE COULD SEE IN OUR HOUSE TO EAT... I FELT LIKE A GUJARATI.. :p (NO OFFENCE)....
    WELL IT WAS NOT A BAD IDEA BECAUSE FOR A VEGETARIAN LIKE ME IT IS A TASK TO FIND VEGETARIAN FOOD ON ANY MENU....:p

     MY DOG ROMEO IS STAYING IN THE QUARANTINE FACILITY OF SINGAPORE... HE IS GOING TO STAY THERE FOR A MONTH... WE CAN VISIT HIM EVERYDAY FOR 2 HRS FROM 4-6PM..... FOR WHICH MY MOTHER IS READY TO LEAVE AT 2PM... :p...
 
     THIS IS ONE PLACE I FELT AN ANOTHER GOOD CHANGE... ALL THIS WHILE WHEN I USE TO TAKE MY DOG AROUND FOR A WALK OR TALK TO HIM.... OR BOUGHT TREATS DRESSES ETC FOR PPL WOULD LOOK AT ME WITH JUDGING EYES.....CALLING ME NAMES, TELLING ME NOT TO GET MY DOG OUT OF THE HOUSE, PEOPLE CALLING ME AND TELLING ME TO KEEP MY DOG AWAY FROM THEIR CHILDREN.....THE WATCHMAN KEEPING AN EYE ON ME WHEN I TOOK MY DOG FOR WALK THINKING HE WOULD SPOIL THE PARKED CARS.... WELL DOGS CANT REALLY DO SHIT TO YOUR CAR DUMBFUCKS.
     

   I VISITED HIM AFTER SEEING HIM LAST IN MUMBAI.... THAT SWEET SOUL WAS SO HAPPY TO SEE ME AND MOM AFTER 2 DAYS..... IT MADE ME AND MOM BOTH CRY.... AND I SAW EVERY FAMILY FEEL AND GO THROUGH THE SAME THING... I FELT SO NORMAL... I FELT LIKE ONE AMONG-EST ALL OF THEM... FELT LIKE I HAD OTHERS LIKE ME...PEOPLE DECORATING THEIR DOGS DEN WIT FANCY BEDS... TREATS .. TOYS... AND EVERY OWNER FELT SO AT PEACE...THE LOVE A DOG GIVES YOU CAN NEVER BE REPLACED.

     WE SPENT OUR TIME FEEDING HIM, TAKING HIM FOR A RUN, BRUSHING HIM, PATTING HIM, GIVING HIM TREATS.... AND FOR THE 1ST TIME I FELT LIKE I COULD MAKE SOME1 FEEL SAFE ... HE WOULD RANDOMLY COME AND LICK MY FACE LAY DOWN BESIDE ME... WATCH THE OTHER DOGS AND BITCHES(he has a crush on many) RUN AROUND THE FIELDS.... IT FELT ENCHANTING...

   

    WELL THAT WAS THE HIGHLIGHT OF MY WEEKEND... SEEING THE LOVE FOR ANIMALS/DOGS.... EXPLORING THE STREETS.... UNPACKING...AND LAZYING AROUND THE APARTMENT .LIFE SEEMED PRETTY NORMAL . 

NEW CITY , NEW LIFE... IT STARTS

IT STARTS.....

    WELL I RECENTLY MOVED TO A NEW CITY/COUNTRY WITH MY MOTHER AND MY 4 YR OLD DOG ROMEO......

     

    IT HAS BEEN  A EVENTFUL 3-4 MONTHS... PREPARING FOR THE BIG MOVE, I HAD TO MEET A LOT OF PPL ,BUY A LOT OF THINGS, VISIT PLACES....  IT WAS ONE CRAZY RIDE WHICH CAN NOT BE EXPLAINED IN WORDS.

  

   I APOLOGIZE TO PEOPLE WHOM I PROMISED TO MEET ONCE BEFORE I LEAVE, BUT COULD NOT... I WILL MAKE IT UP TO YOU THE NEXT TIME I M IN INDIA.

     

    WELL I MOVED TO A NEW COUNTRY SINGAPORE... MANY PEOPLE QUESTIONED ME ABOUT WHY DO I WANT TO LEAVE????? ... INDIA HAS GIVEN ME SO MUCH ,  DON'T I THINK I SHOULD STAY HERE AND GIVE IT ALL BACK TO THIS COUNTRY.

   WELL FOR PEOPLE WHO THINK LIKE THAT, I DO ACCEPT THAT MY HOME COUNTRY INDIA THE PLACE I WAS BORN HAS GIVEN ME A LOT... THE CORE VALUES THE AMAZING SCHOOL AND FRIENDS THE FAMILY THE FESTIVALS ... ALL OF IT.... BUT LIFE IS BEYOND THAT.... THE COUNTRY TOOK AWAY A LOT OF MY MAJOR RIGHTS MY RIGHT TO EDUCATION AND MY RIGHT TO BE FREE WHICH INCLUDE ME FEELING SAFE AROUND THE PLACE TOO.

    

    I M CONSTANTLY NAGGED ABOUT THE FACT THAT I KEEP ON COMPLAINING ABOUT INDIA, BUT THAT IS JUST MY FRUSTRATION COMING OUT . I WASN'T GIVEN MY RIGHT TO GET ADMISSION INTO A GOOD COLLEGE BECAUSE I DINT BELONG TO A CERTAIN CASTE OR MINORITY... WITH 73% RESERVATION IN MUMBAI I COULD LAND UP NO WHERE BUT A DISTANCE EDUCATION PROGRAM AS I WANTED TO BE NEAR HOME.

     ARCHITECTURE WAS NOT A JOKE FOR ME.. I HAVE BEEN WANTING TO DO THIS SINCE I DECIDED TO BE SOMETHING IN LIFE. WELL I THOUGHT IF I COULD NOT MAKE IT INTO A GOOD COLG IN THE 1ST YR I WILL WORK HARD AND GET INTO A GOOD PLACE IN THE SECOND, EVEN IF IT MEANS STARTING FROM THE START.

    BUT NOT SO TO MY SURPRISE EVERY WHERE I WENT WITH MY GRADE(which were good enough to get into mumbai university) I WAS ASKED FOR A "DONATION" . WHICH WAS NO LESS THEN A FORTUNE AND MY PARENTS WERE STRICTLY AGAINST THIS MALPRACTICE AND HENCE I CONTINUED WITH THE SAME PLACE. 

    

    IS EDUCATION IN INDIA ONLY FOR THE RICH WHO PAY THIS "DONATION" OR IS IT ONLY FOR THE MINORITES AND PEOPLE FROM A CERTAIN CASTE... AFTER ALL THIS TO TOP OVER ALL THE FEELING OF NOT BEING SAFE IN YOUR CITY.

    WALKING DOWN THE LANE WITH THOSE JUDGING EYES WHILE ALL U HAVE DONE IS WHERE SOMETHING U FEEL PRETTY OR COMFORTABLE IN..... THE CONSTANT EVE TEASING ON THE ROADS, STATION... AND GUESS WOT YOUR COLG TOO.....

    THAT CHEAP THINKING OF THAT IF I WEAR SHORTS I M INVITING RAPE, WELL JUST FYI I DINT HAVE SUCH PLANS. WELL THIS TOPIC IS A NEVER ENDING DEBATE .

    INDIA IS THE WORLDS 2ND MOST POPULATED COUNTRY... IT CUTS AROUND 35% OF UR INCOME AS TAXES..... ALL THIS MONEY THEN GOES INTO THE POCKETS OF THESE CHEAP, ILLITERATE , NARROW MINDED FUCKS... OUR DEAR LEADERS... WHO DO NOTHING TO PROMOTE THIS COUNTRY............. WITH NEVER ENDING SCAMS , THE FEELING OF BEING CHEATED CONSTANTLY...... THERE IS NO GOVERNMENT SCHEME OR ROAD YOU CAN TRUST ON.... IT FEELS LIKE A JOKE... ALL UR HARD EARNED MONEY GOING DOWN THE DRAIN . 

      THE EXCUSE BEING INDIA IS A BIG COUNTRY ITS NT POSSIBLE TO ORGANIZE IT, WELL IF CHINA BEING THE WORLDS MOST POPULATED COUNTRY CAN DO IT WE DEFINITELY CAN DO IT.

    AFTER THIS WHEN ONE GETS A CHANCE TO GO LIVE IN A PLACE WHERE THEIR DREAMS ARE VALUED , A PLACE WHERE U KNOW U WONT BE CHEATED A PLACE THERE PEOPLE RESPECT EACH OTHERS PERSONAL CHOICE, WHERE U FEEL SAFE, WHERE U ARE NOT JUDGED ABOUT WHAT YOU CHOOSE TO WEAR, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY A PLACE WHERE I GET MY RIGHT TO EDUCATION . 

     THAT TO PURELY ON MY MERIT . IF A PLACE/COUNTRY GIVES ME THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE WHAT I WANT AND STAND ON MY FEET I FEEL I WILL SURELY FEEL AT HOME.AND THIS IS EXACTLY HOW I GOT MYSELF TO MOVE FROM MY M OTHER LAND TO MY NEW MOTHER LAND WHICH HAS GIVEN ME THE THE POWER TO STAND ON MY FEET AND BE A WORLD CITIZEN. AND I DON'T REGRET ONE MINUTE OF IT.

    SAID ALL THAT INDIA HAS A FEW GR8 THINGS... ITS DEMOCRACY THE WARMTH IN PEOPLE, THE VALUES , THE SMALL-SMALL THINGS THAT MAKES PEOPLE SMILE, PANI PURI... AND LATELY MODI... :p .....